Practice room 17 · Going further
Difficult conversations: disagreeing, complaining, saying no
Disagreeing, complaining and saying no, without damaging the relationship.
The softener ladder
Put these from most direct (top) to softest (bottom).
Softener ladder
Each line asks the same thing: turn the music down.
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The say-no builder
A kind no has three parts: something positive, the no with a short reason, and an alternative.
Say-no builder
Choose what you're saying no to.
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Phrase box
Useful phrases from this chapter. Anything that isn't British English is labelled.
Softeners
- I'm afraid…
- I'm not sure…
- Would it be possible to…?
Saying no
- I'd love to, but…
- I'm going to have to say no this time.
- Can I let you know?
Complaining
- Sorry to be a pain, but…
- I think there might be a mistake.
- Would you mind having a look?
Complaining in a restaurant
Your meal arrives cold. Complain politely and get it sorted.
Restaurant complaint
Polite and clear wins.
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